Hey, I’m Nat!
It’s ok you’re having doubts about your relationship. You’re normal. I’m here to help.
This home page will tell you the best ways I can help you RIGHT NOW. It will be updated regularly based on what I’m up to (at the moment, about to go on maternity leave but still enjoying working).
If you’re looking for a clinical approach for ROCD, I am the wrong person for you (I stopped talking about OCD years ago, but if you want to know my background and approach to working with anxiety, click here). But if you want to talk to someone that has LIVED debilitating relationship anxiety and come out the other side with clarity and confidence, I’m happy to help you how I can and teach you the approaches I’ve learned to love my partner wholly without trembling every step of the way.
Please note I also talk about masculine-feminine polarity. Many women I’ve worked with that have anxiety in their relationships are also in de-polarized relationships feeling stuck in roles they don’t like playing. I’m not here to tell you what to do and I don’t take a dogmatic approach to gender roles. Only to make suggestions for you to quit doing what you don’t like doing and explore new ways of being that are new for you and full of freshness, ease, play, and aliveness… and to become a polarized match to the version of your partner you long to see (gotta play the part of the yin to that yang, baby!).
Now that that’s out of the way here’s what I’m offering right now:
PATREON MEMBERSHIP- $5-9/month; cancel anytime
Exclusive content (think: voice notes recorded on the fly with quick tips and intimate stories)
Monthly community support call with Q&As
Course discounts you won’t find anywhere else
Wisio: $67-$117
Need 1:1 support but either sessions are beyond your budget or I’m not offering packages at the moment? Send me a Wisio sharing your circumstances and I’ll put together a thoughtful 10-minute video for you for $67, or $117 if you need it quickly. I’ve got a 5-star rating and over 100 reviews.
online Courses - up to $197
My most popular but not limited to:
Both Feet In - my signature self-study course for those with one foot out the door. Includes 9 modules with audio recordings, videos and PDFs with life-changing perspective shifts, and 3 main exercises to help you with tough emotions, work with polarizing opposition inside of yourself, and change your perceptions of the past warping your perceptions of the present. Includes Yin Language and S*x Anxiety Clinic. $197
S*x Anxiety Clinic - a self-paced workshop to awaken pleasure and release dread and shame in the bedroom. $22
Yin Language - a 3-hour dissection for women on communicating with men in ways that they understand and respond enthusiastically to. $39
Conscious Communication Course - a crash course on Nonviolent Communication in romantic partnership. $65