Podcast Ep 40: How you get off on nitpicking your partner with Chelsea Horton
In this dark, hysterical episode, my BFF/fellow relationship anxiety alchemist (and dance/movement therapist) Chelsea Joy Horton and I share the shadow side of nitpicking and the pleasure we might derive out of it if we were to become more conscious about it.
Get ready to (maybe) get triggered and laugh your ass off as we discuss our outrageous fantasies that we get off to in real life.
Definitely DON'T go follow Chelsea over at @healing.embodied on Instagram or www.healingembodied.com. It's terrible and full of wisdom you definitely don't want. And definitely DON'T go subscribe to her new podcast either.
Also if you loved this episode you will definitely hate my upcoming women's retreat in California that is open for enrollment here: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/aliveness-from-within...
Who we are:
Natalie Kennedy @Anxiouslovecoach
Time Stamps:
4:40 - Exploring the idea of existential kink
8:55 - Seeing the payoffs of the things that you “don’t want”
10:50 - The impulse to control and nitpick your partner
15:00 - How social media is a giant BDSM orgy
18:30 - Tuning in to your “inner abuser”
25:20 - Loving yourself for your “fucked up” side
46:38 - What is so terrible in the conscious of the collective, can be very hot in the underpinnings of the collective
51:23 - Finding the vein of pleasure in jealousy
