Podcast Ep 31: "I'm not feeling attracted to my partner. What do I do?" with Chelsea Horton
The most common question I ever get asked gets answered in THIS podcast with one of my closest friends, Chelsea Horton, who is a fellow relationship anxiety specialist herself. Enjoy!
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Who we are:
Natalie Kennedy @Anxiouslovecoach
Chelsea Joy Horton @Healing.embodied
Time Stamps:
5:40 - What are some things that can contribute to lack of attraction?
8:00 - The role of polarity in your relationship
12:07 - The dynamics of the honeymoon phase
15:00 - Going from the honeymoon phase to the “comfort phase”
18:00 - Relationship responsibilities and how they kill attraction
19:45 - Make your sex life with yourself a priority
23:51 - The importance of other social relationships
28:00 - Ways to create polarity in your relationship
42:00 - Turning your neurosis into something more fun
46:30 - Leaving room for difficult transitions/circumstances
48:25 - Challenging the idea that attraction means love
