Podcast Ep 13: "Settling": The Word that Destroys Great Relationships

 
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Every worry you're "settling" if you stay with your partner? You're not alone: this thought process isn't your fault and it has good reason for being there-- but there are a ton of ways it isn't helpful when looking at relationships, especially for someone that struggles with relationship OCD. In this episode, we will debunk the myth of "settling" and empower you with some better language to use about your relationship so that you can enjoy what's wonderful right in front of you!

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Who we are:

Natalie Kennedy @Anxiouslovecoach

Time Stamps:

  • 02:50- Why are we so afraid to settle?

  • 07:40- How the word “settling” can destroy an otherwise healthy relationship

  • 10:08- Disclaimer on abusive relationships

  • 11:11- The “ego perspective” of relationships and how it can lead to issues in relationships

  • 16:12- Is “settling” a mindset?

  • 17:48- Observations vs interpretations and how they relate to “settling”

  • 19:50 - My experience with “settling”

  • 21:00 - Ways to fulfill your needs in your relationship when your partner is unable to

  • 24:15- Did it take me 9 years to fall in love with my partner?

  • 32:44- So what do I do if I feel like I’m settling?